Biography of Said Appakov

Saida Abystai Appakov: “Religion is not only reading prayer and the Qur'an”, May 03 Reading time: 8 minutes in Tatarstan few people are not familiar with personally or simply with the name of Saida Abistai Appakova. Undoubtedly one thing, seeing her once, is difficult to forget this person with a capital letter. She conquers her wisdom, piercing and the ability to convey her thoughts to everyone - boldly and intelligibly.

Therefore, in every corner of our republic they are looking forward to her as a very expensive guest and want to hear her instructions and advice. I know Said Abystay thanks to her performances and programs at the Tartip radio station. I was lucky to get to know her with my own eyes, and we agreed with her about the interview. On the appointed day, I went to the apartment of Saida Abistai.

She met me as a dear person and revealed the secret of a skilled Tatar daughter -in -law. Saida Abystay was also ready Kystyby, Ma Sha Allah. In each of its corner of the house - cleanliness and comfort. Truly, our Tatar Abystays are an example for us in everything. And recently, Saida Abystay was published by the book “Tuzmas Bulyak”. This is an overview of her personal life, lived in close interweaving with the religion of Islam, with the theme of morality and generations.

The collection contains interesting and at the same time instructive events from her childhood and youth, sermons and instructions on a variety of topics. Saide Appakova managed to very wisely and skillfully convey the intricacies of family relationships between a man and a woman, between a daughter -in -law and mother -in -law, in the book she shares the secrets of achieving relationships in a family based on calm, mutual respect, peace and consent.

In Tuzmas Bulyak, a large place also occupies the theme of respect for the native language, homeland, customs and traditions; The importance of maintaining the values ​​of the Tatar people. Your activities of religious enlightenment are already more than three decades. Even in E, when there was no way for this, you did not leave the case of preaching. Tell us about your first steps in this direction.

Then it was allowed to train the stories of religions, but it was impossible to pronounce the word of Allah. Allah Almighty has prepared us for this work from the very Jew. My mother was the daughter of the indicated mullah of the village of Yamaki of the Kama mouth. She knew four languages: Tatar, Arabic, Farsi and Turkish. I remember how I translated the book “Subatul-Zazin” and Yusuf-Zuleikh with Farsi.

In years, my mother taught us Arabic letters, at 5 years old - prayer, and at 6 - to pronounce sermons. How to say, how to breathe, how to keep the attention of the public, at what point to add a voice, how to read the Koran correctly. At this age, we gathered a person, I got up on a chair and told by heart an excerpt from the work of Yusuf and Zuleikh. In our childhood, there was a book by Nugmani “The History of the Prophets” and we were not allowed to approach the table if we did not tell at least two pages from this book.

These 25 stories of the prophets, which we learned thanks to our mother, when the word Allah was banned, I told the children. How did she recognize your talent? Based on this knowledge, parents under three years old should feel the child, what talent Allah laid in him. I am in the family - the ninth child. Mom tried to grow eight children Koran-Hafizi, and from me demanded that I tell the sermons.

Apparently, Allah gave me such a talent. When we told our parents that no one was raising her children so much, to which her mother answered, that she was just fulfilling her maternal mission, and at the right time this knowledge will be very useful. And what lessons of education did your father give you? All these are integral parts of one whole. ” In addition, mullah and Abystay should be the standard of morality.

If education is absent in them, then religion for people is like water from a goose. First you always need to educate the soul. In my books, I am of great importance of morality and behavior. Information must be presented skillfully, for example, not only the Qur'an, but also enriched with scientific facts during the speech. I usually start my vagazes with the theme of the family, then I move to medicine, other sciences, quantum mechanics, then to religion, in logically I finish: “That's why Allah prescribed us reading the prayer,” and people begin to think that they need a prayer.

The medal of the National Council "Milli Shura" of the World Congress of the Tatars, the medal of the spiritual department of Muslims of the Republic of Tatarstan, numerous letters of thanks and awards testify to this. I’m not even talking about the villages. I'm going to where there are orders. In some places you have to tell Vagaz for 12 hours. This Allah makes me speak.

Without the will of Allah, not a leaf will move, not a single sound will be made. Today we have enough - we need to be grateful to Allah for this. Today we live, as in a worldly paradise. Our religion is given freedom, alhamdulille. Morality is strengthened by mother's milk, or with your native language, ”you write in your new book Tuzmas Bulyak. Among the Muslims there are different opinions regarding religion and native language, let's talk about it.

Wherever we live, we are the Tatars.We have a story of more than the years left by our ancestors. In this legacy, everything is supported by life experience. Religion is not only a reading of prayer and the Qur'an. Religion must be carried out in parallel with life. There are different points in history. The Tatar people let everything through themselves.

You cannot be exalted over others. I met Gabdelfat Safin, who produced the Akcharlak newspaper and his wife Ruzily Hanam. They, seeing my notes, asked “what is”, I replied that these were my speeches on the radio. And we collected performances in one book. The publications that were published before that were called the “Mastery of the Torgan Bulyak”, the last gave the name “Tuzmas Bulyak” “Gift for centuries”.

The difference between the last publication is that my speeches are collected here in a more concise format. Although readers are asking for a spoken language, my simpler presentation of things. Once at one meeting, one scientist said that the language of Saida Abstay is the language of Muhammet Magdeev, and that "we could not save this language, no matter how hard we try." What do you say about modern family education?

They come to the mosque with the family ... Someone needs to read the Qur'an, someone needs a vagaz. When it comes to prayer, they cannot raise their hands and make a dua. They were not taught. The upbringing of the child begins at the time of the ripening of the Nicha. Parents on both sides are taught not to hand over the Boards of the Board, and the "Barry of the Two Baranes" begins, who will win whom ...

- What should the relations between the husband and wife, father and mother should be? After eating, the father teaches to say thanks to his mother for the prepared dinner: “At home - order, food is prepared, the clothes are clean, you are under supervision, - for this, thank you, mother.” It is also important that mother expresses gratitude to the head of the family.

If he says “Father is a feeding us, we’re warm, we have something to wear, thank you, dad”-this is an example of children. Boys - next to dads, girls - with mothers in the kitchen. Even if they bring one nail or one spoon, they feel their importance. From an early age, I remember how closer to dinner, I laid out the instruments on the table, after that - cleaned. The mission of mothers to teach girls to be in the future beautiful mothers and wives.

You told what difficulties you encountered in the first time of your activity. Were there any funny moments? Then I suffered this very difficult, because only the wife of the mullah can be called "Abystai", I thought. But the meaning of this word turned out to be much wider. And now, if they say “apa” is already becoming completely unusual, so I am already used to the word “sunshine”.

Give Allah for many years to be the beloved Abystay of the Tatar people and continue your business! Read also.